Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Kissing Boo-Boos: How We Practice Compassion


Every parent, educator, and caregiver knows that when children get hurt they often want their boo-boos kissed; boo-boo kisses have some kind of magical power that lessens their pain, real or imagined. The kiss itself heals, not because it’s medicinal, but because it comes from a place of love and serves to acknowledge and validate the experience a child is having.  

What about the boo-boos we can’t see? How can we fix those?

At Cambridge Adventure Day Camp, we believe in the potential of all children to reach their highest selves. We approach camper management from a place of compassion and empathy, understanding that emotional pain is the underlying cause of most behavioral issues. Like their adult counterparts, children want to be known and respected. When their behavior is off target, we ask ourselves: What would make a child act this way? How can we address the issue with positive discipline and mentoring? What is their need and how can we meet it?  The result of approaching children in this manner is relationships characterized by mutual trust because the kids understand that adults see them, accept them, and love them as they are.
The words these girls wrote read: Adults Are Good. They wrote this unprompted, indicating they've have internalized an important message: we are here to help, hold, and nurture them as they journey through life.


In other news, today was Red, White, and Blue day at camp!



Upper Camp spent the morning at the Concord Musuem where children had an opportunity to see Americana and experience interactive programming; they dressed up in colonial garb, held artifacts, and simulated metal work by using simple sheets of tin.










In the afternoon, Upper Campers enjoyed electives including: reenacting the Boston Tea Party, participating in drum circles inspired by the history at Congo Square (where slaves would gather on Sundays to relax), painting portraits with watercolors on paper they antiqued with tea bags, learning modern dance, and cooking apple-pie pockets. 









Upper Campers also have an opportunity this summer to take tennis lessons, and we are so grateful to the Cambridge Tennis Club for collaborating with us in this venture. Fourteen of our campers will spend one afternoon a week working with a seasoned professional to build skills and refine their game.






Lower Camp enjoyed an open swim at War Memorial Pool this afternoon, but spent their morning in programming making tri-corner hats, going on a search for “cannon balls,” participating in drum circles, and learning patriotic songs.










Lower Campers also enjoyed use of sidewalk chalk and took on the challenge of decorating our driveway with positive images and messages. 








And on that note, we'd like to wish everyone a joyful and safe celebration tomorrow as we commemorate our nation's independence! See you Thursday!

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